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March 17, 2022 By Sonja Stetzler

3 Top Tips to Help You Engage in Small Talk

Small talk is often the warm-up before getting to the real topic at hand.

As my clients are going back into the office, many are feeling awkward with small talk and in-person meetings and presentations. Small talk is important in our culture. Small talk enables us to quickly build rapport, connect with others, make a positive impression, and build trust. This results in developing and maintaining relationships that are […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills Tagged With: communication, effective communicating, effective communication, effective connecting, help with small talk, how to engage in small talk, small talk skills, small talk tips, small talk tool

February 17, 2022 By Sonja Stetzler

3 Ways to Influence Emotions In Our Audience

If you want to move an audience, you must create an experience that allows your audience to feel the message you are sending.

As speakers, we need to be intentional about how we use our emotions for influence. I am often asked by clients how they can be more influential with the emotions of their audiences. Some have an ask for their senior leadership, others want their audience to accept a change within their organizational processes or procedures, […]

Filed Under: Public Speaking, Speaking Tips, Spoken Communication Tagged With: Advice for Speakers, audience, audience engagement, effective communicating, How Speakers can Connect with their Audience, how to influence emotions of audience, how to influence your audience, how to use emotions for influence, Speaking Tips

November 18, 2021 By Sonja Stetzler

Gratitude: Don’t Underestimate This Communication Superpower

3 Ways Gratitude is a Communication Superpower

I like to think of gratitude as a communication superpower. You might be familiar with research that touts the benefits of cultivating a gratitude habit: higher levels of happiness and well-being, less stress, and greater resilience. Gratitude is a positive communications practice that not only improves my own well-being, but the well-being of others. Here […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Mindset Tagged With: communication, effective communicating, effective connecting, gratitude, Gratitude and Resilience, gratitude as a communication superpower, gratitude gains speaker success

May 20, 2021 By Sonja Stetzler

3 Lessons for an Effective Speaking Process

the effective speaking process is similar to the hiking journey to a waterfall

We all have hurdles to navigate for an effective speaking process to make a difference with our message. As the weather has warmed, my husband and I took a quick trip up to the mountains near where we live to do some hiking. Unbeknownst to me, my husband had chosen a hike that did not […]

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July 23, 2020 By Sonja Stetzler

Use VUCA For More Strategic Communication

use VUCA for strategic communictaion

Let VUCA Help You Become A Better Communicator The term VUCA was first used in 1987 to describe the Volatility, Uncertainty, Complexity and Ambiguity of general conditions and situations, which aptly describe what we are experiencing today. How can we use VUCA for more strategic communication and speaking? Volatility. Not many could have foreseen the […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Conference Speaker, Public Speaking, Speaking Tips Tagged With: effective communicating, strategic communication, vuca

March 4, 2014 By Sonja Stetzler

5 Ways to Enhance Your Credibility as a Speaker

Like it or not, your audience, not you, decides on your credibility as speaker.  Credibility is characterized as a speaker’s competence (knowledge of his/her subject matter) and character (trustworthiness and goodwill towards his/her audience). A speaker’s credibility can be a moving target as it can vary from audience to audience, and it can even change […]

Filed Under: Speaking Tips Tagged With: audience, credibiity, effective communicating, speaking

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