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Spoken Communication

August 22, 2024 By Sonja Stetzler

4 Benefits of Engaging in a Conversation With Opposing Views

We have more in common than what seems to divide us

Engaging in a conversation from different viewpoints can promote healthy communication. As someone who has specialized and taught communication skills over the past decade, the One Small Step program piqued my interest. After hearing the StoryCorps founder’s interview, I signed up to participate in the One Small Step program. At this time in our country’s […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Spoken Communication Tagged With: communication, communication skills, effective communicating, effective communication, effective connecting, engage, engagement, engaging in a conversation, How to have a conversation with opposing views

November 23, 2023 By Sonja Stetzler

How to Turn Negative Feedback from Speaking Engagements into Gratitude

"Thank you, because..." can be a powerful tool when faced with situations that we may initially think of negatively

Using this powerful tool when faced with perceived negative situations will help turn negative feedback into gratitude. According to neuroscientists, our brains are evolutionarily hard-wired to remember the negative rather than the positive. It’s one of our defense mechanisms to protect us against threats and keep us alive. It’s called our negativity bias. That is […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Spoken Communication Tagged With: communication, effective communicating, effective communication, effective connecting, how to communicate gratitude, how to encourage gratitude, how to handle constructive feedback, how to turn negativity into gratitude

February 17, 2022 By Sonja Stetzler

3 Ways to Influence Emotions In Our Audience

If you want to move an audience, you must create an experience that allows your audience to feel the message you are sending.

As speakers, we need to be intentional about how we use our emotions for influence. I am often asked by clients how they can be more influential with the emotions of their audiences. Some have an ask for their senior leadership, others want their audience to accept a change within their organizational processes or procedures, […]

Filed Under: Public Speaking, Speaking Tips, Spoken Communication Tagged With: Advice for Speakers, audience, audience engagement, effective communicating, How Speakers can Connect with their Audience, how to influence emotions of audience, how to influence your audience, how to use emotions for influence, Speaking Tips

January 21, 2021 By Sonja Stetzler

Speakers Code Of Ethics

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Communication Ethics Because public speaking is such a powerful communication tool, speakers need to adhere to a code of ethics. Most professions have created ethical guidelines which governs the work or services that are performed or conducted in a given industry. Even if you are not a professional speaker, but a professional who speaks, adhering […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Conference Speaker, Presentation Tips, Public Speaking, Speaker Coach, Speaking Coach, Speaking Tips, Speaking Voice, Spoken Communication, TradeShow Speaker Tagged With: communication ethics, speaker code of ethics

October 22, 2020 By Sonja Stetzler

Persuasive Communication

political decisions based on persuasive communication

Finding The Truth In Persuasive Communication Persuasive communication entails laying out a claim, then providing evidence and reasoning to support that claim in an effort to move an audience to take a specific action. Below are several of the most common fallacies that are often used in persuasive arguments. How many of these have you […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Conference Speaker, Public Speaking, Speaking Tips, Spoken Communication Tagged With: persuasive arguments, Persuasive Communication, political ads

June 18, 2020 By Sonja Stetzler

Pivoting For Change

Effective conversation for change

Change Starts With Conversation Having been certified as a Conversational Intelligence coach last year, one of the core beliefs promoted by its founder, Judith Glaser, is that changing anything starts with a conversation. The challenge becomes how to start and facilitate those conversations. The ability to effectively connect starts with being open to change. How […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Speaking Goals, Speaking Tips, Speaking Voice, Spoken Communication Tagged With: change starts with conversation, effective conversation skills

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