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June 20, 2024 By Sonja Stetzler

5 Ways Pauses in Speech Create Impactful Presentations

Pauses in speech help to create an impact within your presentation

Utilizing pauses in speech can create a deeper connection with your audience. At a recent speaking event, I was conversing with an audience member before I took the stage, and the concept of “ma” came up. What is “ma”? No, it’s not another word for your mom. It’s a Japanese concept that translates to “pause”, […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Presentation Tips Tagged With: Advice for Speakers, audience, audience engagement, communication, communication skills, effective communicating, effective communication, effective connecting, effective speaking, How Speakers can Connect with their Audience, pauses in speech, using pauses while speaking

May 23, 2024 By Sonja Stetzler

How to Build a Successful Relationship with a Meeting Planner

Your meeting planner's success is related to your success

One important element that should not be overlooked is the relationship one builds with the meeting planner. One of the best ways to keep your speaking pipeline filled is to build a successful relationship with a meeting or event planner as their success is related to your success. The following are several ways to ensure […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Presentation Tips Tagged With: Advice for Speakers, communication, communication skills, effective communicating, effective communication, event planning, How to Build a Successful Relationship with a Meeting Planner, how to communicate with the event planner, how to work with a meeting planner, meeting planner, presentation tips

April 18, 2024 By Sonja Stetzler

How Vulnerability Can Make You a Better Speaker

Vulnerability can transform you into a more compelling, relatable, and impactful speaker

Transform into a more compelling, relatable speaker by being vulnerable. I recently worked with a client on crafting a presentation for her organization’s internal conference. She had a compelling story she wanted to share, yet wondered how much detail she should share. The question that arose was how vulnerable is too vulnerable? When does sharing […]

Filed Under: Presentation Tips, Speaking Tips Tagged With: Advice for Speakers, audience engagement, communication, effective communicating, effective communication, effective connecting, how to be vulnerable in presentations, How vulnerability can make you a better speaker, presentation tips, speaking coach, Speaking Tips, vulnerability in speaking

February 22, 2024 By Sonja Stetzler

5 Ways to Ensure Effective Cross-Cultural Communication

Be mindful of cultural sensitivity when communicating your message, cross-cultural communication

Become a more effective speaker by strengthening your cross-cultural communication skills. Over the years, I’ve had the opportunity to speak to audiences in other countries (virtually) as well as coach professionals not from the United States who wanted to improve their presentation delivery to a US-based audience. Whether speaking to an audience from a country […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Speaking Tips Tagged With: communication, communication skills, communication strategies, Cross-Cultural Communication, cross-cultural presenting, effective communicating, effective communication, effective connecting, effective cross-cultural communication, intercultural communication

December 21, 2023 By Sonja Stetzler

My Favorite Books from 2023

My Favorite Books from 2023

I hope that my favorite books from 2023 provide you with reflection to accelerate growth. As a life-long learner, I’m an avid reader. My parents instilled in me a love of reading from a very young age, and I still enjoy the pleasure and learnings of a well-written book. Whether you are looking for a […]

Filed Under: Business Development, Personal Development Tagged With: Advice for Speakers, books about communication, business development, communication, effective communicating, effective communication, personal development, personal development books

November 23, 2023 By Sonja Stetzler

How to Turn Negative Feedback from Speaking Engagements into Gratitude

"Thank you, because..." can be a powerful tool when faced with situations that we may initially think of negatively

Using this powerful tool when faced with perceived negative situations will help turn negative feedback into gratitude. According to neuroscientists, our brains are evolutionarily hard-wired to remember the negative rather than the positive. It’s one of our defense mechanisms to protect us against threats and keep us alive. It’s called our negativity bias. That is […]

Filed Under: Communication Skills, Spoken Communication Tagged With: communication, effective communicating, effective communication, effective connecting, how to communicate gratitude, how to encourage gratitude, how to handle constructive feedback, how to turn negativity into gratitude

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